New Zealand families share their stories about welcoming a child with Down syndrome into their families.



Linda te Kaat  attended the New South Wales Down Syndrome Health Conference and reports how oral health is a major issue to consider for caregivers.

Oral health is the greatest health need for people with Down syndrome.  Oral disease shares common risk factors with cardiovascular disease, diabetes, cancer and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. 

What is dental disease, and can it be prevented? 


  • Decaying teethA cavity can result in tooth enamel dissolving over time.  Early prevention can reverse tooth decay. 


  • Periodontal diseases This effects the gums and bone around the teeth.  Gingivitis is reversible and signs are red and swollen gums and bleeding on brushing.  There will be no signs on an X-ray and no pain and may be present in more than one tooth.  This develops more quickly in people with Down syndrome due to an altered immune reaction to plaque.  Bacteria invade below the gums to cause inflammation which can lead to bone loss around the tooth root if not treated.  X-rays are the only way to show if there is any bone loss. This also leads to bad breath and teeth can get loose or move and pain can occur on biting.    There is often no pain in late stages of this disease and it always requires dental treatment.     


  • Trauma to tooth or jaw.  Falls can cause dental trauma.  Any tooth that has been chipped, moved or discoloured needs immediate treatments.  Teeth that have been knocked out can be put back in again but never touch the root of the tooth and get the tooth to a dentist immediately.  Dead teeth do not hurt but can be infected.  Falls on the chin with problems opening the mouth may be a fracture to the jaw. 


  • TMJ (Temporomandibular joint & muscle disorders). This is caused by trauma to the jaw or TM joint or by grinding teeth from stress.  That symptoms to look out for are  pain or stiffness in the chewing muscles (often one sided), limited movement or locking of the jaw, painful clicking and popping or grating in the jaw on opening. This conditions tends to be more common in woman.  The treatment is often simple and in most cases the discomfort will go away with little or no treatment.  Eat small pieces of food, apply ice packs or heat packs.  Avoid extreme jaw movements like wide yawning and chewing gum.  Short term use of Nurofen may be useful. 


Without X-rays, up to 40% of decay can be missed and therefore it is vital that these are carried out routinely.   

Toothbrushing requires the same manually dexterity as handwriting and many people with Down syndrome find this difficult therefore regular dental care is required.   

Often cysts may not be painful, and antibiotics can stop the pain and infection, but infection can still be in the bone and not picked up without an X-ray.   

Chronic pain can lead to changes in behaviour and people with Down syndrome can have a high pain tolerance therefore once it reaches the level of pain it can sometimes be a major dental problem.  
Always use toothpaste with fluoride in it and never rinse the mouth after brushing.   

Savacol is good for plaque build-up and a mouthwash with fluoride is ideal.  This can also be used on a toothbrush to brush around teeth if they person is unable to swish and spit.    

The Oral-B electric toothbrush was also recommended as not only one of the cheapest but also the best to use but sometimes electric toothbrushes are not tolerated by our young onesso use gradually to get used to it and start at a young age.   


You should seek professional care when there is: 

  • Any swelling of the mouth, face or neck.   
  • Any ulcer that does not heal 
  • Any persistent burning of the mouth 
  • Any severe pain in the teeth – even if it stops 


For people that cannot explain their symptoms, watch out for a change in eating habits, oral behaviour or bad breath 

 Before going for treatment, discuss with the person with Down syndrome what is going to happen and use books to illustrate what they can expect. 

Always keep the language positive and if possible try to have a first visit as an introduction without any serious treatment. 


We Decide.

That is the message people with Down syndrome want New Zealanders to hear loud and clear.

Far too often people with Down syndrome have their decisions made for them, even when they are very capable of making their own choices.

In many cases they are not consulted over the hundreds of small decisions made each day or even the big, life-changing decisions.

“Those decisions make us who we are, but the reality for many people with Down syndrome is that other people are making small as well as significant decisions for them,” Zandra Vaccarino, National Executive Officer of the New Zealand Down Syndrome Association (NZDSA).

Imagine if someone decided when you get up, what you eat, where you go to school, what you do with your money, who your friends are and even the romances you have. For most of us that would be impossible to imagine but for many people with Down syndrome this is their daily reality.

“Often with best intentions these decisions are made by others, but this year we want to remind all of New Zealand to support people with Down syndrome to make their own decisions,” says Vaccarino.

Saturday, March 21 is World Down Syndrome Day (WDSD) and the NZDSA has launched a special #WeDecide video message from its own members to explain how important it is to make their own choices.

In the clip, Lily talks about becoming an actress, Rachel and Vincenzo talk about getting married, Abigail talks about her career in media while Alec and Jessica proudly explain how they bought a house.

Disability Rights Commissioner Paula Tesoriero highlights that 34.9 per cent of people with Down syndrome are not in education, training or employment and asks New Zealanders to consider how their actions can help change those statistics.

“A child deserves the right to decide what a good life looks like, just like all of us,” says the commissioner.

The #WeDecide video is one of thousands of initiatives and special events around New Zealand and around the world to raise awareness for Down syndrome and to promote the global “We Decide” message.

In New Zealand, local groups have organised gatherings in their own community, but unfortunately some had to be cancelled because of Covid-19.

Hundreds of schools around the country have also embraced the “Odd Socks” campaign in which students wear non-matching socks to demonstrate that we are all different and to fundraise for their local Down syndrome community.

“These events are growing every year and this shows there is an increasing involvement by local schools and communities,” says Vaccarino.

“And of course, World Down Syndrome Day is a special day for our families and whānau to get together, connect and celebrate the amazing feats our people with Down syndrome have achieved.”


You can download the video here




Is the Down syndrome community under threat?

New Zealand is on the cusp of introducing more advanced antenatal testing for Down syndrome. COEN LAMMERS investigates if the Down syndrome community should feel under attack and looks at the ethical, medical and social issues at the heart of this debate.

Pre-natal screening for Down syndrome and other genetic disorders has long been a contentious issue in New Zealand and abroad.

The introduction of more sophisticated and conclusive testing methods has increased termination rates and triggered a global debate around screening ethics, the value of a life with a disability and state-sponsored elimination of Down syndrome.

In some European countries, babies with Down syndrome have become a rarity.

Iceland has reportedly reached a 100% termination rate, closely followed by Denmark where in 2017 only four new babies were born with Down syndrome.
Whether you agree with the abortion policies in those countries or not, the undeniable fact is that in many countries young people with Down syndrome will soon become an uncommon sight, or worse, an unwanted anomaly.

A striking example of the growing sentiment that Down syndrome is a burden that some societies can do without, was highlighted last year in the Netherlands where some media commentators debated whether Dutch women had a moral duty to abort their babies with Down syndrome.

Their comments were based on a list published by the Dutch Ministry of Health of the most expensive diseases and conditions which rated Down syndrome as the most expensive condition to the tax payer.

This list and the articles were widely discredited, challenged and condemned as biased because it conveniently ignored major health areas like cancer.
This discussion triggered one Dutch physician to tweet that “We haven’t come this close to Nazi before,” referring to the systematic extermination of disabled people in Nazi Germany.

This quote may sound dramatic, but the overseas trends and policies in some of these so-called enlightened and modern societies have caused strong concerns in the global Down syndrome community about the value their own society puts on a life with Down syndrome.

Unfortunately, as they are introducing more effective screening programmes, most countries have not had a wide public discussion around this sensitive issue.
Statistics from the United Kingdom show that the termination rate of women who have had a positive screening test, has not changed over the past few decades and remains around a staggering 90%.

What has changed with the introduction of more sophisticated tests, is the actual number of positive tests and subsequent abortions in the UK, increasing from 482 in 2010 to 706 in 2016.

This year the National Health Service in the UK is rolling out the Non-Invasive Prenatal Testing (NIPT) which gives women a near conclusive result on whether their baby will have Down syndrome.

Some critics in the UK have argued against the introduction of the test, fearing Icelandic statistics.

The NIPT test is not yet widely available in New Zealand and Dr Jane O’Hallahan, Clinical Director of the National Screening Unit, says that a slower uptake can in this instance give New Zealand an advantage and the opportunity to have a debate on how to introduce the test in a responsible manner.

“We need to tread very carefully around the ethics and the management of introducing this test in New Zealand,” says Dr O’Hallahan.

The NIPT is already privately available in New Zealand but Dr O’Hallahan says that the Ministry of Health is likely to make the test available, initially for women with a higher chance of having a baby with Down syndrome or other genetic disorders.

Dr O’Hallahan understands why the overseas statistics cause concern in the New Zealand Down syndrome community and is adamant that the Ministry of Health does not share the views of their European counterparts.

“There is no agenda to terminate lives with Down syndrome.”

Unfortunately, the Ministry of Health does not keep any records on positive tests for Down syndrome and terminations.

Dr O’Hallahan says that roughly the same number of children with Down syndrome have been born in New Zealand in recent years and from that she concludes that improved testing has not triggered a rise in terminations.

The National Screening Unit has created a working group of stakeholders to look at ways of improving informed choice for all ethnicities. This working group includes New Zealand Down Syndrome Association National Executive Zandra Vaccarino and board member Kim Porthouse.

Dr O’Hallahan says these stakeholders are providing valuable insights, beyond the medical discussions.

Mrs Porthouse says that the NZDSA wants the medical sector to understand that the screening debate is a social issue, not just a medical issue. “And the social implications need to be part of these discussions.”

She has an interesting perspective as a midwife and a mother of a son with Down syndrome and feels that there are two specific issues at stake in the screening discussions.
In her view, the pregnant women firstly need to be better informed before they decide to have any tests at all, and if they receive a positive test, the women need to get more balanced information about Down syndrome.

Mrs Porthouse says that most women think the tests are standard and don’t really consider the impact the results can have and the sudden life-changing decisions they may be facing.

“People think they are just going to take a picture when they get their first scan,” says Mrs Porthouse who feels that pregnant women should be better informed that the reason for the 12-week scan is for an NT (Nuchal Translucency) scan as part of the MSS1 (Maternal Serum Screening) screen.

The Ministry of Health has produced a brochure on Screening for Down syndrome, which clearly spells out the options and the choices women have, but Mrs Porthouse doubts if the brochure is used widely at present.

“Women should be offered the option to take this away to read through before deciding to screen, but often due to timing, most decide at the initial booking appointment.”
If they undertake the screening and it detects a higher risk or chance of Down syndrome, the families are forced to make quick, big decisions.

They need to make a call on having an amniocentesis, which carries a small risk of losing the baby, or in some centres they may be offered the NIPT test, which is expensive. They also need to consider what impact a baby with Down syndrome may have on their lives.

If the additional more-conclusive testing indicates the baby has Down syndrome, the medical provider will explain what Down syndrome is, but in most cases this talk will merely feature a long list of medical conditions the child may or may not develop during their lives.

“The doctors will cover themselves for everything, even if there is just a minimal chance the child will ever have those issues,” says Mrs Porthouse. Mrs Porthouse says the women are not being counselled on the wider social issue and positive impact a child with Down syndrome could have on their lives and community. “These families need to get the chance to talk to parents who are living with Down syndrome or other people who have faced the same decision.”

Instead, she is aware of anecdotal evidence that women often feel pressured to terminate their pregnancy. “It is a very emotional time for the families and it is hard to think clearly, so if you are only presented with a long list of all the things that can go wrong with your child, it is not hard to see that people opt for termination. “In many cases, it can be a decision they regret,” says Mrs Porthouse who personally knows of parents who after termination have struggled with their decision. “In some cases, the people get to know more about Down syndrome or get to know someone and they find out it was not at all what the doctors had made them believe. For some it has been devastating.”

Dr Jane O’Hallahan is aware of the cases in which women feel pressured to terminate their pregnancy. “But we don’t know how widespread this, but there should be no pressure.”
The Clinical Director of the National Screening Unit says that the Ministry of Health is aware of the issues and is continuously improving information going to women. “However the introduction of NIPT in the future will require an overhaul of the informed choice process to enable women to make the right decision for them and their families,” says Dr O’Hallahan, who admits that her colleagues often portray a future with Down syndrome in a negative light.

Dr O’Hallahan says that the information provided is “over-medicalised” and is not a social discussion. “It does not consider the value of people with Down syndrome or the fact that these people add value to so many lives of others.”

As an example, the Director mentions her own daughter who had the privilege of following a family with a newborn with Down Syndrome during her medical studies – a lovely experience that would benefit all medical students.

Dr O’Hallahan says that the feedback from the NZDSA and other stakeholders on the working group had been valuable to show the social side of Down syndrome and that the National Screening Unit is more focused on counselling and providing better education for medical professionals and medical students about Down syndrome. “We are currently putting a lot of effort into giving more holistic information to give a real picture of what life with Down Syndrome is like. We are investing to give women the right information, so they can make the right decision for them and their family.”



What are all the tests and what do they mean.

NT scan: Nuchal Translucency ultrasound scan performed around 12 weeks (range 11 weeks to 13 weeks, 6 days). It measures the fluid in the nuchal space at the back of the foetal neck. The old test used to combine just the scan with maternal age to give a risk of Down syndrome. Risk results are no longer provided on NT scan alone as they are less accurate compared to MSS1 or MSS2 screens. The NT scan is now only used in conjunction with the MSS1 calculation.

MSS1 screen: Maternal Serum Screening (combined blood test – 2 markers – and NT scan) performed in the first trimester of pregnancy until 13 weeks 6 days gestation. Current government funded screen, offered to all women who engage with antenatal care in the first trimester.

MSS2 screen: Maternal Serum Screening (4 marker blood test, no scan) performed between 14 weeks to 20 weeks gestation. Accuracy levels are said to be about the same as MSS1 screen, offered to all women who engaged with services too late for MSS1 screening or those who prefer not to have ultrasound scans of their pregnancy. Government funded.

NIPT (or NIPS) test: Non-Invasive Prenatal Screening. Blood test only (new blood test which is different to MSS1), is said to be 99+% accuracy. Currently not government funded in New Zealand and expensive.

Amniocentesis: diagnostic test in which a needle under ultrasound guidance is used to draw fluid from around the foetus. This fluid contains foetal cells which are used to look at chromosomes to see if Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome) exists. Carries a risk of miscarriage of 0.5 to 1.0% (1:100 – 1:200).

Thanks to routine testing, parents are often well aware of whether their child has a high chance of Down syndrome. New Zealand Herald reporter Emily Winstanley looked at how three families handled the news.

Auckland parents Kirsten McDonald and Philip Venables found out their unborn baby could have Down syndrome after the 12-week screening offered to all expectant mothers in New Zealand. They decided to find out for sure with an amniocentesis test.

McDonald says the doctor who delivered the news asked her to look at the piece of paper with her name and the result, confirming their child had Down syndrome. “Then [her] next words were, ‘You’re going to have a beautiful baby boy.’ That still stays with me, those words from her. She just reminded us that first and foremost, we were going to have a beautiful baby boy, rather than saying, ‘Oh I’m really sorry’ or even words like ‘but’.”

Thirteen weeks later, baby Joshua was born.

At 39, McDonald knew her age would increase her baby’s chance of chromosomal abnormalities like Down syndrome, but when she had the 12-week test, the chance showed at one in 80. They’d decided to delay the amniocentesis until she was 25 weeks, because for them, it wasn’t a question of whether to continue with the pregnancy, but of wanting to prepare themselves.

“Every time we had a scan we were told the risk had increased. We just needed to know so I could enjoy my pregnancy, rather than spend the next 15 weeks being stressed.”
The test was conclusive, so they met with families of children with Down syndrome, and did plenty of research.

“By the time I had Joshua we were just so ready to meet him and not have this abstract diagnosis of Down syndrome. We just wanted to meet our boy. There was no shock or worry or trauma. It does have an impact on him and I wouldn’t change him for the world. If we could take away the Down syndrome, no way, that’s what makes Joshua who he is.”

But like many parents of children with Down syndrome, McDonald is concerned about the way the diagnosis is presented to families.

“I don’t have anything to say against testing because it prepared me for the birth of my child. I guess what I have an issue with is what information people are given when they are encouraged to have a test and when they get the diagnosis. Most of it is about everything that could be ‘wrong’ with our children. Imagine if we did that with every diagnosis. I think everyone has a right to have a test and a right to make their own decision, but it’s about information.”

And that’s certainly the view of the Down Syndrome Association. National executive officer Zandra Vaccarino wants families facing a diagnosis to be put in touch with people with Down syndrome and their families. “There’s a lot of information given from a medical perspective, like what screening is, and the options around termination. But they do not get information from the social perspective. So if someone’s never met someone with Down syndrome, and read a book 20 years ago, that will be the knowledge they hold. Every year, quality of life for people with Down syndrome changes as they’re included more in the community, and that information isn’t always shared. People with Down syndrome are moving the goalposts all the time.”

Vaccarino also wants better training for the medical professionals. She says what she’s hearing from people in the community, is some families feel they’ve been pressured to terminate as a result of a Down syndrome diagnosis.

Peter Stone is Professor of Maternal and Fetal Medicine at the University of Auckland, and a representative on the National Screening Unit Advisory Group, which oversees antenatal testing. He disagrees with the idea that there is pressure or coercion of women to make a particular choice. “The screening is based around reproductive choice. The majority of women, whatever they decide, want to know what is going on in their pregnancy.”

Twelve-week testing, also called “first trimester combined screening”, takes into account an ultrasound scan, a blood test, and other factors like a mother’s weight and whether she smokes. It gives a specific chance of the baby having Down syndrome or one of a handful of rarer chromosomal abnormalities. If the test shows an increased chance of Down syndrome, one in 300 or less, parents are offered further diagnostic testing — the amniocentesis, or less often chorionic villus sampling.

It’s hard to work out exactly how many women choose to terminate once a diagnosis of Down syndrome is given. Stone says in New Zealand, about two-thirds of women who are given a high chance of Down syndrome and other chromosomal disorders will have diagnostic tests done. In 2015, that was 655 women.

Of those who have a diagnosis confirmed, he says about two-thirds again will choose not to continue with the pregnancy. The Abortion Supervisory Committee doesn’t keep information on the specific reason for an abortion, so it’s impossible to know the exact number. Stone says the termination rate in New Zealand is much lower than in other Western countries — for example, Denmark. “I think this suggests there’s no evidence of pressure or coercion to have a termination.”

Iceland and Denmark are often highlighted as extreme cases, where nearly 100 per cent of pregnancies involving a Down syndrome diagnosis are terminated. In England and Wales it’s roughly 90 per cent. In the United States, the rate is similar to New Zealand’s.

One parent who chose not to continue their pregnancy after the diagnosis is Jess (not her real name).

After trying to conceive for two years, then a miscarriage, she and her partner were thrilled to become pregnant again. Then came the news they faced a one-in-five chance of the baby having Down syndrome, which was confirmed with diagnostic testing.

Jess was in her 40s when they conceived, and, as a medical specialist, was well aware of the higher risk that posed. Before testing, she was sure in the case of Down syndrome, her decision would be to terminate. But in reality, she says making the decision was probably the worst thing she and her partner have ever been through.

“It took us weeks to decide, and I wondered if it might break us up at one point. We went to counselling with the social workers at the hospital, we had a couple of sessions with them really going through what are our hopes and fears and our real core beliefs. I think we came to a place of support for each other. In the end, I felt termination was the only way forward.”

She didn’t feel any pressure to terminate, “I almost felt pressure the other way, but I think that’s just personal circumstance.”

In the end, Jess opted to be induced at 17 weeks. “I felt like I wanted to meet my son, I wanted to be able to bury him and mourn him, so I went through the induction and that was pretty horrible.” She’s since had another child, who she calls her ‘rainbow baby’.

Two years on, Jess knows it was the right choice for her family. “It’s something that comes back to me often, but I’ve made peace with the fact it was the right decision.”

World Down Syndrome Day saw many people celebrating what those with the syndrome can contribute to their community. For others, it was a chance to advocate against antenatal testing, with some saying the syndrome is being tested out of existence. But doctors point out that can’t happen altogether, because many mothers choose not to screen at all. In New Zealand, 20 per cent of pregnancies aren’t screened, by circumstance or by choice. And then, even when the chance is calculated to be extremely low, it’s still a chance nonetheless.

Charlotte Ammundsen was 24 when she became pregnant, and her combined testing showed a chance of just one in 12,000. Then, when her now 1-year-old daughter Hayley was born, she immediately thought something wasn’t quite right.

“In all honesty I didn’t immediately think Down syndrome, but I felt like something was a bit off. The midwife was looking at me and she said I see you’ve picked up on something. We think there are certainly signs of Down syndrome.” That diagnosis was quickly confirmed.

Ammundsen’s in two minds about whether it would have been easier to have known ahead of time. “It would have been so wonderful to properly enjoy the first week, because she was in NICU for three days, and everything combined was overwhelming. Also, the community is amazing, so to be part of that earlier would have been awesome. On the other hand, I’m glad I didn’t have that conversation with doctors about all the bad stuff. It’s not that scary, she’s the best thing that’s happened to me.”

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Jess Waters from West Melton in Canterbury provides a very personal reflection on growing up with a sister with Down syndrome and the recent controversy around Shortland Street’s depiction of the disability.

When I was growing up, I always wished I had Down syndrome.

As a sister of a young adult with Down syndrome, it has been extremely frustrating to hear of Shortland Street’s ignorant and insensitive storyline around Down syndrome in the recent week.

Their portrayal of the disability could not have been more wrong.

My sister Rochelle and myself are very close in age and I have seen first-hand just how great her life is.

She brings joy everywhere she goes and people love her. She gets all the attention and is offered amazing opportunities, which is why I often wished that I had Down syndrome myself.

More importantly, my sister brings positivity to negative situations and doesn’t judge people.

Rochelle has got it good.

She works part time in a bakery, she is learning to become a dance teacher, she is part of a mixed ability dance group, she is the chairperson of the Special Olympics Athletes committee, where she also trains as a swimmer, and she is on the Canterbury Down Syndrome Association Committee.

She is very much like anyone else her age, has a boyfriend, loves spending time with her friends and watching movies, she can cook and clean, loves to have the odd beer and she enjoys travelling around New Zealand to catch up with the family.

Rochelle is very independent, catches the bus by herself, has flown on her own on occasions and likes to make her own decisions.

At 23, she’s achieved probably more in her life than any other 23-year-old I know.

I very often remark people with Down Syndrome are geniuses because they have people wrapped around their little finger.

Take school for example where Rochelle got away with murder. Teachers would see her disability and not expect much from her and she played right into that. I knew she was more than capable as I would see her doing these things at home and outside of school. But if she couldn’t be bothered doing something, she would happily and deliberately play the disability card. She and her friends know how to use their disability to their advantage.

One part that is often overlooked in the discussions about how valuable a life with Down syndrome is, is the impact they make on the people around them.

Having a sister with Down syndrome has made me a better person. Like many other siblings of people with Down syndrome, I’m accepting, empathetic and have the ability to see things from other people’s viewpoint.

I’ve spent my whole life being around people with Down syndrome and often think the world would be a better place if everyone had Down syndrome. I love being around these guys, there’s always laughter, fun and positivity.

Being Rochelle’s sibling has brought me many opportunities, from coaching swimming with Special Olympics, to camps where I’ve made lifelong friends.

As a committee member for Special Olympics Canterbury, it makes me proud to see Rochelle running the meetings and contributing to the discussions we have.

It’s great that she’s on the various committees to advocate for her peers.

It bothers me when people refer to Down syndrome as a curse.

How can a happy child who rarely argues backs like most kids, loves routine and brings laughter everywhere, possibly be a curse? The understanding of this disability is, so so wrong.

I am disappointed that so many people have such a wrong impression and ignorant story lines on shows like Shortland Street do not really help to educate the community about how great life with Down syndrome really can be.

I wonder why other storylines are portrayed with more sensitivity than this, but it just reinforces why I don’t watch this programme and never will.


Caption: Jess Waters with her sister Rochelle.